Please provide me some points to write an essay on a case.

Alexis had often wished that she could understand herself better. But the fight with her boyfriend the previous night really made her wonder what was driving her behaviour. For no reason at all, she had gotten annoyed with him at a party and had begun to criticise him. When he responded by asking her what her problem was, she had gotten really angry. She shouted at him that he was a total loser and that she didn't want to see him again. She stormed out of the party and had gone home.
By the time she reached home, though, she was miserable. She really did like her boyfriend, and she didn't want to end the relationship. She wondered why she had gotten into the fight and why, in general, she was acting more aggressively with others. She wished she could find a way to reduce her combativeness and strengthen her relationship with important people in her life. She got some random insights from browsing the Web and looking at some of the self-help books her local book store, but mostly she ended up being confused.

Question - what do you think about ale is strategy of surfing the Web and looking at self-help books at book store to better understand herself? What are the dangers of this approach. What advice would you give her?

Please help me with this so that I can write my essay. I need some references that's it.

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These articles will help.

http://www.google.com/#q=psychology+impulse+control&*
I don't know if any of these will help or not. The problem with relying on self-help books and web sites is that the information contained in them is generalized to a wide population. One's specific needs may not match what is generally good advice. Each person is an individual.

http://www.bing.com/search?q=the%20value%20of%20self-help%20psychology%20books%20and%20web%20sites&qs=n&form=QBRE&sp=-1&pq=the%20value%20of%20self-help%20psychology%20books%20and%20web%20sites&sc=0-53&sk=&cvid=85FA1FA3930F437B8EB00149D4A014CE
I thought I need to write on humanistic perspective.

The above is a related to which psychology.
You won't know what applies to your perspective or question unless you start reading. If one article does not meet your need, move on to the next one until you find what you need.