An individual discloses that they are having suicidal thoughts after feeling betrayed by their partner. The crisis counselor has recently gone through a similar experience (i.e., feeling betrayed). Which of the following is the most appropriate crisis counselor response? Select one answer.

Question

“I too went through a similar experience recently and I understand completely what you are feeling right now. No relationship is worth ending your life over.”

“I hear that you are feeling betrayed by the actions of your partner and you have lost trust in them. You are also thinking about ending your life. Does that sound about right?”

“People who betray someone’s trust like your partner did are really selfish. It’s normal to feel really hurt and upset but don’t take your life.”

“I wish I could share my experiences but I don’t want to make this about me.”

Answer 1

The most appropriate crisis counselor response is:

“I hear that you are feeling betrayed by the actions of your partner and you have lost trust in them. You are also thinking about ending your life. Does that sound about right?”

This response validates the individual's feelings and actively engages them in a conversation about their emotions, showing empathy and understanding without making the session about the counselor's personal experiences. It allows the individual to clarify and express their feelings further, which can be crucial in a crisis situation.