Question

1.withdrawing or withholding reinforcement
2.incompatible behaviors
3.catch the child being good
4.reminder,redirection,reprimands
could someone give me example of how this relates to the developmental-behavioral approach

Answer 1

i don't understand what is meant by #2, but the others are all ways to control children and slowly change their behavior. (If you can provide a definition/explanation of #2, it might well fit, too.) One term for this is behavior modification.

http://www.google.com/search?sourceid=chrome&ie=UTF-8&q=behavior+modification
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