Let’s discuss REVENGE:

We’ve all heard the saying, “an eye for an eye”... Do you believe revenge is always justifiable? Why or why not? Why do humans seek revenge? How can revenge be helpful and/or harmful? What can be done to break the “cycle” of revenge? What are some alternatives to revenge? What is the difference between revenge and justice?

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Sure! Let's break this down into simpler ideas.

Is revenge always justifiable? Revenge means trying to hurt someone because they hurt you. Some people think it’s okay to get back at someone, but others believe it makes things worse. Often, revenge doesn’t solve the problem; it can create more fighting and hurt feelings.

Why do humans seek revenge? People might want revenge because they feel angry or hurt. They think that by hurting the other person, they’ll feel better. But sometimes, it just makes them feel worse in the long run.

How can revenge be helpful and/or harmful? Revenge is usually harmful. While it might feel good for a moment, it can lead to more problems and fights. Instead of getting along, people can end up being enemies. Sometimes, though, people think revenge helps them feel more powerful or gets them back for something bad that happened.

How can we break the cycle of revenge? If someone is hurt and wants to get back at the other person, they can choose to talk things out instead. This means using words to share feelings and solve the problem together, rather than hurting each other again.

What are some alternatives to revenge? Instead of seeking revenge, people can:

  • Talk about their feelings and what happened.
  • Try to forgive the other person.
  • Focus on doing something good for themselves, like spending time with friends or doing a fun hobby.

What is the difference between revenge and justice? Revenge is when someone takes matters into their own hands to get back at someone. Justice is when a fair system (like the police or a court of law) decides what should happen to someone who did something wrong. Justice is meant to be fair and help everyone, while revenge often makes things worse.

So, while it’s natural to feel hurt and want revenge, there are better ways to handle those feelings!