Question

In "Marriage is a Private Affair" by Chinua Achebe What does Okeke do/say that shows how we’re supposed to feel about him? Write 2 bullet points to answer the question. Use in text citations.

Answer 1

1. Okeke's rigid adherence to traditional beliefs and his refusal to accept his son's choice of a partner demonstrate his narrow-mindedness and lack of compassion. As the story unfolds, Okeke sternly tells his son, "It is against our custom; it is abominable for a son of mine to marry such a woman" (Achebe 7). This statement reveals Okeke's inability to embrace change and his stubbornness in maintaining his cultural expectations, resulting in a negative portrayal of his character.

2. Okeke's reluctance to reconcile with his son and his initial refusal to attend his grandson's baptism reflect his stubbornness and inability to let go of his bitterness. When invited to his grandson's baptism, Okeke initially responds by saying, "No...no thank you...I don’t need it. It is for him and his children to prepare themselves for baptism" (Achebe 11). Okeke's rejection of the invitation and his dismissive attitude towards his grandson's initiation into Christianity highlight his unwillingness to forgive and move past his pride, intensifying the negative impression of him.