1. A and B
2. What do you think should be in those blanks?
10. Which of the following sentences should not be used in "I" messages? (Choose 2)
A) You make me feel humiliated when you criticize me.
B)It's hard for me to think clearly when you are singing.
C)I would like us to leave on time in the future.
D)I do not like it when you borrow my things without asking.
One way to be clear and direct is to use "I" messages, which state your needs and feelings. They do not focus on the traits and behaviors of someone else. "I" messages do not blame or judge someone's behavior. They simply state how you feel about a behavior and what you want done about it. Using "I" messages allows you to take responsibility for your feelings.
The three parts of an "I" message are: "I feel _______ when you _______ because _______," followed by a clear request.
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