Read these VERY carefully:
http://www.ancient.eu/Mesopotamia/
http://www.worldology.com/Iraq/mesopotamia_advanced.htm
http://www.penfield.edu/webpages/jgiotto/onlinetextbook.cfm?subpage=1525827
http://www.mrdowling.com/603mesopotamia.html
Why did Mesopotamia city-states flourished? Was it due to specialized labor or conquered an area large enough to make themselves self-sufficient.
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PS -- It happened over a long period of time, and it had far more to do with developing human abilities and talents than conquering other people!