The pair of excerpts that correctly matches an idea in the novel "Wonder" with a probable inspiration from Natalie Merchant's song "Wonder" is:
Novel: "The kid's got a killer handshake," Mr. Tushman agreed, and everyone laughed above my head.
Song: I'm over your heads how I confound you and astound you.
This pairing highlights the theme of feeling overlooked or misunderstood, as the character in "Wonder" experiences moments where others may not fully understand or appreciate him, paralleling the sentiments expressed in the song.