Which defense mechanism is John using when he says “it’s ok if I tell my parents that I am going to Lisa’s house even when I’m really going to ride around with Pete because they won’t mind

Answer 1

John's statement reflects a defense mechanism known as rationalization. Rationalization involves providing a logical or reasonable explanation for behaviors or actions that are otherwise unacceptable or morally questionable. In this case, John justifies his decision to lie to his parents by telling himself that they "won't mind," thereby minimizing the significance of his dishonesty. This allows him to feel more comfortable with his behavior despite the awareness that he is not being truthful.