When courting, it's important for a couple to consider their personal values and the potential impact of their displays of affection. Early on, discussing limits is crucial to ensure that both partners feel comfortable and aligned with Bible principles, such as those found in 1 Thessalonians 4:3-7, which emphasizes purity and self-control. Couples should also think about their community's views on affection and whether certain actions might lead to heightened emotions, which can lead to temptation, as mentioned in Proverbs 6:27. Building a respectful and thoughtful approach to affection helps to strengthen the relationship while keeping spiritual principles in mind.
What factors should a courting couple consider when deciding on displays of affection?
What about displays of affection? Some may be appropriate as your relationship progresses. However, if your passions are aroused, you will likely find it hard to think objectively about the other person. (Song of Sol. 1:2; 2:6) Displays of affection can also easily escalate and lead to misconduct. (Prov. 6:27) Therefore, early in your relationship, discuss what limits you will set, in harmony with Bible principles. (1 Thess. 4:3-7) As a couple, ask yourselves: ‘How would people where we live view displays of affection between us? Could these actions arouse passion in either of us?’
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