Friends can play a significant role in supporting a courting couple by being respectful and considerate in their words and actions. As Proverbs 12:18 highlights, "The words of the reckless pierce like swords, but the tongue of the wise brings healing." This means that we should choose our words carefully to avoid causing unnecessary pressure or discomfort. For example, instead of discussing wedding plans prematurely, friends can encourage the couple to share their journey at their own pace, allowing them to enjoy their relationship without added stress. By practicing discretion and respect, friends can provide a positive and supportive environment for the couple.
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We can also support courting couples by what we say or do not say. At times, we may need to control ourselves. (Read Proverbs 12:18.) For instance, we may be eager to tell others that a couple have begun dating, but the couple may want to share the news themselves. We should not gossip about a courting couple or criticize them about personal matters. (Prov. 20:19; Rom. 14:10; 1 Thess. 4:11) Furthermore, the couple may not appreciate comments or questions implying that they should or will get married. A sister named Elise and her husband recall, “We found it awkward when others asked us about our wedding plans when we hadn’t discussed them yet.”
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