Here’s how the items would be categorized:
Similar:
- surrendered
- let myself go
Different:
- desired
- attained
- abandoned myself
This classification is based on the meaning associated with "surrendered," which relates to giving oneself up or yielding, while "desired" and "attained" refer to ambitions or achievements. "Abandoned myself" could imply a release of control, but may not align with the same connotation as "surrendered."