Umbono wami uthi, uma kuzolotsholwa, kumele kukhunjulwe ukuthi ubudlelwano bomkhwenyana nomakoti bungenza kube lula ukunqoba izinkinga ezingeziwe, kodwa akusho ukuthi ukuhamba komkhwenyana kubalulekile. Ezinye izinkolo oramasiko zikhuthaza ukuthi umkhwenyana avakashele umndeni kamakoti, kodwa uma ukhona umphumela omuhle nokuxhumana okuhle, kungaba kahle ukuhlela izinto ngendlela ehamba phambili. Kubalulekile ukuhlela imishado ngezindlela ezihlonipha izinkambiso zomndeni nomphakathi.
Ngakho, uma umkhwenyana engahambanga, akusho ukuthi konke kudinga ukuthuthukiswa. Okubalulekile ukuthi bobabili bazizwe bekhululekile futhi bezwakala ekubeni umshado uhambe kahle.