Question

This is true, but how does picking out something for someone become moral vs immoral?
if they ask me to pick it out for them and i pick something that makes them look bad am i being immoral because i knew that they wouldn't look good? Are they being immoral for asking me to pick it out?

Answer 1

<I>What</I> are you picking out?

Since I am colorblind, I rely on my wife to help me pick my clothes and even tell me what to wear to particular events. Is that immoral?

There are different standards of morality. What is moral to one person is immoral to another. Who is doing the judging? This article might help:

http://www.members.cox.net/dagershaw/lol/EthicsWorldView.html

In the end, you have to decide about your own moral standards, which may vary over time or situations.

I hope this helps a little more.