Would comments like these make you defensive?
Whenever you receive a negative "you" message, e.g., "Why don't you ever (some positive behavior)?" or "Why do you (some negative act)?"
When someone calls you names, e.g., "You idiot!" or "You lazy slob!"
Think of a time you get really defensive?
I cant think of a time I get defensive but do you have any examples to help ring a bell for me?
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