The client’s statement reflects feelings of hopelessness and a focus on their own experiences of pain and disappointment in relationships, suggesting a concern primarily for their own feelings and experiences. In Carol Gilligan's theory of moral development, this corresponds to Level 1—selfishness.
At this level, individuals often prioritize their own needs and feelings over the needs of others, and the focus is more on self-protection rather than on relational dynamics or moral considerations regarding others. The other stages (Level 2—goodness and Level 3—nonviolence) involve a growing awareness of others' needs and a more relational perspective, which does not seem to apply to the client’s current mindset.