To solve the problem of the hand warmer becoming too hot and uncomfortable, the best modification would be:
A. by replacing the glass fiber burner with a material that does not soak up liquid fuel.
This option would limit the amount of fuel that is burned at any given time, reducing the overall heat output and making the device more comfortable to hold. The other options would either increase fuel availability, increase combustion speed, or restrict oxygen, which could worsen the overheating issue rather than alleviate it.