It's great that you have found solace in music and that the playlist made by your manager has been helpful to you. However, when it comes to expressing your feelings for someone, it's important to consider the context and timing.
Since you're going to her house for the Star Wars marathon, it could be a good opportunity to spend some quality time together and get to know each other better. Use this time to build a stronger connection and gauge if she may have mutual feelings for you. Pay attention to her body language, conversations, and overall chemistry.
Instead of explicitly telling her that you like her right away, it might be better to let your relationship develop naturally. Give it some time and see if the connection between you two continues to grow. Since you mentioned going to the zoo together on Valentine's Day, that could potentially be a more appropriate occasion to express your feelings, as it often carries romantic connotations.
In any case, remember that communication is key. If you eventually decide to confess your feelings, be honest and genuine. Keep in mind that the outcome may be uncertain, so prepare yourself for acceptance or the possibility of maintaining a good friendship regardless of her response.
So, I have struggled with depression for 2 years but never mentioned it since I don't want to be on medications. During that time I found a playlist on Spotify that helped me through the hardest parts. about a month and a half ago I got my first job and in some crazy turn of events one of my managers is the one who made the playlist. over this last month and a half, we have been talking a lot, including how her playlist helped me through some hard times, and I have grown feelings for her that I have a feeling that she returns. I am going over to her house for the first time for an all-night Star Wars marathon, and I am wondering if I get the chance, should I tell her that I like her, or wait until valentines day when we will be going to the zoo together
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