show the link between intrapersonal conflict and initiating relationship

3 answers

Which intrapersonal conflict?

Conflict occurs when person needs decide between incompatible goals.

I. Approach-approach involves two or more positive goals. It is easily resolved (banana split/hot fudge sundae example).

II. Avoidance-avoidance involves two or more negative goals --> escape or avoid, whichever is possible (garbage, pit and pendulum examples).

III. Approach-avoidance involves one goal with both positive and negative qualities --> ambivalence and vacillation.

IV. Double approach-avoidance involves two or more goals, each with both positive and negative qualities --> ambivalence and vacillation (football vs. baseball captains as dates example).

V. Qualities common to all conflicts.

A. They are internal and subjective --> people don't necessarily perceive conflicts in the same way.

B. Avoidance gradient always steeper than approach gradient (abused wife example).

C. If conflict not resolved --> increased anxiety and reduced self-esteem.

Conflicts --> anxiety --> use of defense mechanisms, which are unconscious methods to defend ego and reduce anxiety.
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