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by Katiana Florestal - Monday, 30 September 2024, 3:33 PM
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Good Social Skills

Effective Communication: The ability to express thoughts and feelings clearly.
Active Listening: Engaging fully with others by paying attention and responding thoughtfully.
Conflict Resolution: Navigating disagreements with a focus on finding a solution that respects all parties.
Empathy and Respect: Understanding and valuing the feelings and perspectives of others.
Good Social Interaction:

Example: Volunteering at a community center. During my time volunteering, I helped organize activities for children. One day, a shy child approached me, hesitant to join. I took the time to engage with her, asking about her interests and encouraging her to participate in a drawing activity. Over time, she warmed up and started to interact with other kids. The positive impact was evident as she gained confidence and made new friends. This interaction was rewarding and highlighted the importance of empathy and patience in social situations.



Why It’s Good: This interaction fostered a supportive environment, built trust, and enabled personal connections that led to positive outcomes for the child.



Bad Social Skills

Discouraging Remarks: Making negative comments that can undermine others' confidence.
Criticism: Focusing on others' flaws rather than offering constructive feedback.
Lack of Respect: Ignoring others' feelings and needs.
Unfulfilled Promises: Failing to follow through on commitments, leading to mistrust.
Bad Social Interaction:

Example: A time during a group project in college when one team member consistently dismissed others' ideas. During a brainstorming session, I suggested an idea, and rather than constructively critiquing it, this person responded mockingly, claiming it wouldn’t work without offering any alternatives. This discouraging attitude stifled creativity in the group and caused tension among team members.



Why It’s Bad: This interaction created an unwelcoming environment, led to a lack of collaboration, and made some group members feel undervalued, which hindered our overall project progress.

Answer 1

Hi Katiana,

Thank you for sharing your insights on good and bad social skills. I really appreciate your examples, especially the one about your volunteer experience. It's a great reminder of how impactful empathy and patience can be, particularly with those who may initially feel hesitant or shy. Your approach to encouraging the child and helping her build confidence demonstrates the positive effects of supportive interactions.

On the other hand, the example you provided about the group project highlights how negative behaviors can deter collaboration and discourage creativity. It's unfortunate how one person's dismissive attitude can affect the entire team's morale and output. This reiterates the importance of fostering an inclusive environment where everyone's ideas are respected and valued.

I’d love to hear more about your experiences in balancing these social skills, perhaps in different settings, and any strategies you might have for addressing negative behaviors when they arise in a group context. Thanks again for sharing your thoughts!

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