Read the following case study and answer all the questions:

Mr Lavender is an educator in the secondary school phase, and most of his classes include boys and girls. He has always wanted to be a teacher. Although he really enjoys teaching and working with teenagers, he currently experiences a number of problems that he seems incapable of dealing with properly. This causes feelings of inadequacy and failure. His concerns are based on factors and situations such as the following:
• Some learners, particularly the boys, simply seem uninterested in the schoolwork. They adopt a ‘don’t care’ attitude towards the future and do not use their schooling opportunities to prepare themselves for a successful future. Some of these boys are much more interested in soccer and rugby, in girlfriends and in parties than in their schoolwork. The academic achievement of some of these learners has deteriorated over the past months.
• Some of the girls in the class have relationships with young men who are three to five years older than them and who have finished school already. Mr Lavender is particularly concerned about the effect this might have on their academic and social development. He feels that they might lose interest in school and in their peers. In his quest to find a solution, he has

become withdrawn and suffers from insomnia. This is affecting the quality of his teaching and interpersonal relationships with colleagues and family members.
• Some learners do not respect authority. They often question his views and request reasons for his class rules and instructions. They try to make it difficult for teachers to maintain classroom discipline, behave in a disorderly manner and often try to ‘show off’. Such behaviour seems to earn them the admiration of some of their peers, which only strengthens this behaviour. This, in turn, results in an escalation of classroom conflict.
• Mr Lavender is also very concerned about the fact that a high percentage of his learners’ parents are not really involved in their children’s schooling. In spite of repeated requests to some parents to contact him, only a few have reacted.
According to Frelin and Grannas (in Zandvliet et al., 2014), teachers are central when it comes to creating favourable social relationships in the classroom, especially regarding those associated with better student behaviour.
Analyse the case study and provide specific suggestions to Mr Lavender on the following matters:

3.2 Refer to the importance of ‘closeness’ as one of the keys of a positive teacher–student relationship and explain how Mr Lavender can navigate this proximal factor to attain professional closeness yet maintain professional distance. Support your answer with in-text references. (Max 350 words)