If Xavier asks himself the THINK questions about commenting that his friend looks tired, he might answer "yes" to the following criteria questions:
- Is it true? - If Xavier genuinely believes his friend looks tired, he may answer yes to this question.
- Is it necessary? - He might also conclude it is necessary if he feels it’s important to address how his friend appears, though this is more subjective.
However, he would likely answer "no" to the other questions in most situations:
- Is it helpful? - Commenting on someone looking tired might not be deemed helpful.
- Is it kind? - It may not be perceived as kind to point out that someone looks tired.
Ultimately, whether he should comment or not involves considering all criteria and the context of their friendship.