The behavior you're describing—spending excessive time playing video games to the point of being upset about family obligations—could be indicative of an impulse-control disorder, particularly if it is leading to significant distress or disruption in daily life. However, it could also suggest symptoms related to excessive gaming behavior, which can sometimes be associated with other mental health concerns, including anxiety.
Among the choices you've given:
- Anxiety disorder generally involves excessive worry or fear that interferes with daily activities.
- Phobia refers to a specific fear that is disproportionate to the actual danger.
- Bipolar disorder involves mood swings ranging from depressive lows to manic highs.
- Impulse-control disorder involves the inability to resist a temptation or urge that may harm oneself or others.
Given the context, the most fitting option based on the information provided would likely be an impulse-control disorder.