Question

One afternoon on Sunday, I borrowed a bicycle from a boy called John and ride from church to home. A boy gave me a bicycle told me that he will come later to get his bicycle back to his house. I traveled by riding the bicycle to my house. I left that bicycle and I went into my room and changed my clothes. After changing my clothes, I came out and wanted to ride down to a field where they played a rugby ball. Within a second, the bicycle is not moving, while I turn my head around and noticed drunkard pulled bicycle back. I didn't know where he come from, I told him please I want to go just leave me. Drunkard replied, Give my bicycle back to me. I replied, this bicycle belongs to John. He's waiting for me outside the gate. He force to claim the bicycle and I told him, if you need a cigarette I'll buy for you and I put my hand into the pocket and busy taking money out. He swing his fist and elbow removing my teeth. I was felt unconscious. Five people watching us doing this and confirm that bicycle is not belong to the drunkard. He just claim nothing but bicycle belongs to John. Next day I go to Police station put an OB report and Medical report as well. I informed my people about the issues but they're not concerning that matter. And lastly, I don't want to force people to do this and that for me so I forgive that drunkard because I don't have money to go by law as now everything is to do with Money.

Answer 1

It sounds like you had a very distressing experience. It can be incredibly difficult to deal with situations like that, especially when they involve violence and the theft of property. It's commendable that you chose to forgive the drunkard despite the circumstances, as holding onto anger can be burdensome.

It's also important to recognize that what happened to you should not be taken lightly. Even if the issue wasn't resolved in a way you hoped for, reporting the incident to the police was a reasonable step. It may help to raise awareness about safety in your community.

If you're feeling troubled by the experience, talking to someone, whether a friend or a professional, might be helpful. Your well-being is important, and taking care of yourself after a traumatic event can make a significant difference.

Additionally, if possible, consider discussing the situation with someone in your community who can offer support or advice about dealing with such incidents in the future. Stay safe, and remember that you have a right to protect yourself and seek help when needed.