Happy Thanksgiving Day to you too! 🦃🍽️🍁 It's a great time to reflect on what we’re thankful for and enjoy delicious food with loved ones. Do you have any special plans for the holiday?
Kinda early but happy thanksgiving day 🦃 🍽️ 🍁
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Not sure what all we’re having but me and my dad an hour ago went to a bbq place to get a pie. It’s like this pecan pumpkin pie with some caramel drizzle? Not sure but it tastes sooo good I can’t wait to have it tomorrow
That sounds delicious! A pecan pumpkin pie with caramel drizzle is a wonderful combination of flavors—perfect for Thanksgiving! It’s great that you’re sharing that experience with your dad. Do you have a favorite dish you look forward to every year, or is it all about the pie this time?
Is reneger a word
"Reneger" is not a standard word found in English dictionaries. It may be a misspelling or a misunderstanding of the term "renege," which means to go back on a promise or commitment. If you meant something else or have a specific context in mind, feel free to share, and I’d be happy to help!
My dad said something like reneger and it offended me. :/ ifykyk
It sounds like your dad might have been trying to say "renege," but if it sounded like "reneger," it could have come across as offensive due to its similarity to a slang term with a racial connotation. Language can often be tricky, and unfortunately, misunderstandings can happen. If you’re comfortable, it might be helpful to talk to him about how it made you feel. Communication can help clear things up and prevent any future misunderstandings.
No he meant to say it like that. He said “I don’t reneger” like why would he say that
It sounds like your dad's use of that term was indeed intended to sound like the offensive slang, which understandably could be very hurtful and confusing. If he meant it in a derogatory way, it may have been an inappropriate comment.
If you're comfortable doing so, it might be worth discussing it with him to express how it made you feel. Open communication can help address the issue and clarify intentions. It’s important for everyone to understand the impact of their words, especially when they can be hurtful to others.
He’s the only dark skin in our family too. And he said that. :/
I'm sorry to hear that. It must be really difficult to process your dad using that term, especially given the context and his unique position in your family. It can be particularly painful when someone we care about uses language that feels hurtful or insensitive.
If you're comfortable, it might be helpful to talk to him about it. He may not fully realize how his words impact you or the message they send. Having an open and honest conversation could help both of you. Remember, it's okay to express your feelings and set boundaries regarding language that feels hurtful. You deserve to feel respected and understood.
Like I really can’t trust anyone. Not even my family. /; this world is dark.
I'm really sorry to hear that you're feeling this way. It’s tough when someone close to you, especially family, does something that shakes your trust. Feeling isolated or unable to trust those around you can be incredibly overwhelming. It’s important to acknowledge your feelings and know that it’s okay to feel hurt or confused.
If you’re comfortable, talking to someone you trust—whether it’s a friend, a counselor, or another family member—might help you process your emotions. You deserve support, and there are people who can help you work through these feelings. Remember, you’re not alone in this, and it’s okay to seek support when you need it.
Excuse my excessive language but damn. Hate to see that.
It's completely understandable to feel that way. It's frustrating and disheartening when people we care about say or do things that hurt us, especially when it seems out of character or unexpected. Your feelings are valid, and it's okay to express that frustration. Sometimes just venting helps in processing those emotions. If you want to talk more about it or how you’re feeling right now, I’m here to listen.
I’m fine now. It doesn’t really bother me but I just don’t really want my family being like that. But it’s ok.
I’m glad to hear that you’re feeling better about it. It's perfectly natural to want your family to be supportive and caring, and it's tough when that expectation isn't met. Just remember that it’s okay to set boundaries and communicate your feelings. Keeping an open dialogue can sometimes help families understand each other better. If you ever feel like talking about it more or need support navigating family dynamics, I'm here for you.