Is there any way to find divorce records and such that is actually free of charge?

Answer 1

Nope! Those are always within some kind of pay-for-service. You can try websites like Whitepages.com and Peoplefinder and Spokeo -- but they'll always want a fee if you want that kind of information. Some of them want a fee just to look up addresses and phone numbers.

Be careful and be savvy.