The situation in which the reactive force between two colliding objects causes a physical change is a baseball player swinging a bat and hitting a baseball, causing the bat to shatter.
In this case, the force exerted by the bat on the baseball, and the force exerted by the baseball on the bat, can lead to a physical change, specifically the breaking of the bat (a structural change). The other examples result in motion changes or redirection but do not involve a physical transformation of the objects involved.