It sounds like you have some conflicting feelings about this boy and your relationship with him. It's understandable that you may be hesitant to date him because of what others might say, but ultimately, your feelings should guide your decision. If you think you may love him and are interested in pursuing a relationship with him, it might be worth giving it a chance.
However, it's important to communicate openly and honestly with him about your concerns and fears. Have a conversation with him about how you're feeling and why you've been hesitant to date him in the past. This will help both of you understand each other better and can lead to a stronger and healthier relationship.
It's also important to consider how he behaved by asking another girl out, as this may be a red flag for potential issues in the relationship. Make sure he respects your feelings and boundaries, and that you feel comfortable and secure in the relationship.
Ultimately, trust your gut and do what feels right for you. If you think you love him and want to give the relationship a chance, go for it. But if you're still unsure or have doubts, listen to your instincts and take the time to figure out what you truly want. Good luck!
I'm in love with a boy at school and he has been wanting to date me for 3 years and I keep denying his request, I think maybe it's because am scared of what will the other learners at school say & my friends, he asked a girl out, i only found out about it this week and I think he only did it to spite me because he wants me to be his girlfriend still, i don't know what to do. Today he wanted to talk to me, i refused as usual, but I always feel bad afterwards, what should I do, i think I love him am not sure
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