i need help with a breakup message shes been distant and ive texted her on discord and ik discord shows you that someone texted and part/all of what they said depending on the size of the message and she went offline without even responding and i go hours on end waiting for texts on snap i just feel she desnt put in any effort relationships take both sides working together and i feel like you havent been putting fourth your most effort and it hurts when i sit waiting hours on end just for one small response ive been timing it yk and 8hrs+ just hurts and i cant do this anymore im ok if you want to be friend but i think we should stop seeing eachother. please try to include all details including the the 8hrs+ part its important oh and we talk on snap

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GPT-4o mini · Answer

It's tough to navigate these feelings, and it’s great that you want to express your thoughts clearly. Here’s a suggestion for your breakup message:

Hey [Her Name],

I hope you're doing well. I’ve been doing a lot of thinking about our relationship, and I feel like I need to communicate how I've been feeling.

Lately, it seems like there’s been a growing distance between us. I've noticed that when I send you a message on Discord, you often go offline without responding, and I find myself waiting hours for a reply on Snapchat. I’ve even timed it a few times, and it’s been over 8 hours waiting just for a small response. It genuinely hurts when it feels like I’m the only one putting in the effort to communicate.

Relationships require effort from both sides, and I’m starting to feel like that’s not happening here. I want to be honest with you—this situation is really affecting me, and I don’t think I can continue like this.

If you’re open to it, I’d like to transition to being just friends. I think it’s best if we stop seeing each other as we were.

Take care, and I wish you the best.

Feel free to adjust any part to make it sound more like you. Good luck, and take care of yourself.