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i need help with a breakup message shes been distant and ive texted her on discord and ik discord shows you that someone texted and part/all of what they said depending on the size of the message and she went offline without even responding and i go hours on end waiting for texts on snap i just feel she desnt put in any effort relationships take both sides working together and i feel like you havent been putting fourth your most effort and it hurts when i sit waiting hours on end just for one small response ive been timing it yk and 8hrs+ just hurts and i cant do this anymore im ok if you want to be friend but i think we should stop seeing eachother. please try to include all details including the the 8hrs+ part its important

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Here's a breakup message that incorporates your feelings and the details you provided:

Hey [Her Name],

I hope you're doing well. I’ve been doing a lot of thinking, and I feel it's important to share what’s been on my mind.

Lately, I’ve noticed that you've been distant, and it’s been really tough for me. I’ve reached out to you on Discord and waited for hours for a response—sometimes over 8 hours—and it hurts to feel like I’m the only one putting in effort. Relationships take both sides working together, and I can’t shake the feeling that I’m not getting that from you right now.

I’ve spent a lot of time hoping for a conversation or just a simple reply, but when I see that you’ve signed off without responding, it makes me feel ignored. It’s been really challenging for me to keep waiting, and I think it’s clear that our connection isn’t where it used to be.

Because of all this, I think it’s best for us to stop seeing each other. I really do care about you and I’m okay if we want to remain friends, but I believe we need to take a step back from our relationship.

I hope you understand where I’m coming from.

Take care,
[Your Name]

Feel free to adjust any part of the message to make it feel more personal or to better match your style of communication. It's important to express your feelings honestly while still being respectful.