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i need help with a breakup message shes been distant and ive texted her on discord and ik discord shows you that someone texted and part/all of what they said depending on the size of the message and she went offline without even responding and i go hours on end waiting for texts on snap i just feel she desnt put in any effort relationships take both sides working together and i feel like you havent been putting fourth your most effort and it hurts when i sit waiting hours on end just for one small response ive been timing it yk and 8hrs+ just hurts and i cant do this anymore im ok if you want to be friend but i think we should stop seeing eachother. please try to include all details

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I'm sorry to hear that you're going through this. It's important to communicate your feelings honestly while being respectful. Here’s a message you can consider sending:

Hey [Her Name],

I hope you're doing well. I've been doing a lot of thinking lately about our relationship, and I feel it’s important to share my thoughts with you.

I’ve noticed that you've been distant for a while now, and I can't help but feel that I'm often waiting for responses that never come. It really hurts when I text you and see that you go offline without replying, sometimes for hours. I get that life gets busy, but it does feel one-sided when I’m waiting for a small response, and I can't help but feel like I'm the only one putting in the effort.

Relationships require both people to work together, and I just don't see that happening right now. I truly value the time we've spent together, but it’s become clear to me that we’re not on the same page.

I think it would be best for both of us if we stop seeing each other romantically. I really do care about you, and if you're open to it, I’d like to stay friends.

Take care of yourself.

Feel free to tweak it to make it sound more like your voice. Good luck!