i need help with a breakup message shes been distant and ive texted her on discord and ik discord shows you that someone texted and part/all of what they said depending on the size of the message and she went offline without even responding and i go hours on end waiting for texts on snap i just feel she desnt put in any effort relationships take both sides working together and i feel like you havent been putting fourth your most effort and it hurts when i sit waiting hours on end just for one small response ive been timing it yk and 8hrs+ just hurts and i cant do this anymore im ok if you want to be friend but i think we should stop seeing eachother.

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It's tough to navigate feelings and relationships, especially when communication breaks down. Here's a breakup message you could consider sending:


Hey [Her Name],

I've been doing a lot of thinking lately, and I feel it’s important to be honest about where I’m at. I’ve noticed that there’s been a distance between us, and I often find myself waiting for responses that don’t come. It hurts when it seems like one person is putting in more effort than the other, and I feel like our relationship isn’t working the way it should.

I truly care about you, but I think it might be best for us to stop seeing each other romantically. I value the time we’ve spent together, and if you’d like, I’m open to being friends in the future. But I believe it’s time to move on from this.

Take care of yourself.


Feel free to modify it to better reflect your voice or feelings. The key is to be clear and kind, while also taking care of your own emotional well-being. Good luck!