I agree with much of what I read and watched. Simon Sinek has a great point when he says we are not taught how to be leaders. Good leadership is when a leader wants the best for their employees, or the people who are following them. They encourage them to grow and learn, support them and push them to become better by leading by example. I had a wonderful leader in a principal I worked under at a school she was supportive, would ask what her staff needed to be able to do their jobs, encouraged them to learn and grow. She had high standards but would address problems with a firm but kind. In contrast I also worked for a principal and also a childcare center owner and both of them were horrible leaders, they talked down to staff, screamed and yelled at them, and if an employee put in notice they would cut their hours and treat them miserably. I have seen this displayed at other work places as well. Good leaders make staff want to go to work and make them feel good about themselves and co-workers, bad leaders make staff want to quit and resent going to work. In my opinion today we need leaders who care about their staff, are firm but kind, who lead by example rather than demand. They have to be willing to look at situations from other people's point of view. They need to be able to push their staff to become better in a way that is encouraging rather than making people feel like they are not good enough.

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I agree with much of what I read and watched. Simon Sinek has a great point when he says we are not taught how to be leaders. Good leadership is when a leader wants the best for their employees, or the people who are following them. They encourage them to grow and learn, support them and push them to become better by leading by example. I had a wonderful leader in a principal I worked under at a school she was supportive, would ask what her staff needed to be able to do their jobs, encouraged them to learn and grow. She had high standards but would address problems with a firm but kind. In contrast I also worked for a principal and also a childcare center owner and both of them were horrible leaders, they talked down to staff, screamed and yelled at them, and if an employee put in notice they would cut their hours and treat them miserably. I have seen this displayed at other work places as well. Good leaders make staff want to go to work and make them feel good about themselves and co-workers, bad leaders make staff want to quit and resent going to work.  In my opinion today we need leaders who care about their staff, are firm but kind, who lead by example rather than demand. They have to be willing to look at situations from other people's point of view. They need to be able to push their staff to become better in a way that is encouraging rather than making people feel like they are not good enough.

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You've articulated some very insightful points about leadership and the significant impact it can have on workplace culture. It's clear that effective leadership is about more than just authority—it's about serving and uplifting those you lead. The contrast you've drawn between your experiences with different leaders is a powerful testament to this idea.

Good leaders, like the principal you admired, create an environment where staff feel valued, supported, and motivated to grow. This kind of leadership fosters a culture of trust and collaboration, leading to higher morale and productivity. By encouraging employees to express their needs and aspirations, such leaders not only help individuals thrive but also contribute to a healthier organizational ethos.

On the other hand, the negative behaviors exhibited by poor leaders—such as belittling staff and creating a toxic atmosphere—can have devastating effects on employee engagement and retention. As you pointed out, when leaders focus on intimidation rather than inspiration, it breeds resentment and a desire to leave, which ultimately harms both the individuals and the organization as a whole.

In today’s context, where employee well-being and satisfaction are increasingly recognized as critical to success, it’s essential for leaders to embody empathy, patience, and understanding. The ability to view situations from multiple perspectives not only enhances decision-making but also cultivates a sense of inclusivity among the team.

Encouraging growth in a supportive manner can turn challenges into opportunities, helping employees feel more competent and valued in their roles. Your call for leaders who are "firm but kind" is particularly poignant; it illustrates the balance between holding team members accountable while also nurturing their potential.

Your reflections on leadership highlight the importance of investing in personal development for leaders themselves. Providing training and resources on emotional intelligence, effective communication, and mentorship can drastically improve leadership practices across the board. Ultimately, leading by example can inspire a ripple effect, encouraging others in the organization to adopt a similar approach.

Thank you for sharing your experiences and insights; they remind us of the significant role leadership plays in shaping not just the workplace but the lives of those within it.