Before meeting with a wrongdoer, elders should prepare their hearts by praying for guidance and reflecting on God's mercy (Romans 2:4). They remember their role as shepherds and seek to understand the individual's background and struggles (Proverbs 20:5), aiming to lead them gently to repentance.
How will the elders prepare their own heart before meeting with a wrongdoer? (Romans 2:4)The elders prepare their own heart. They try to imitate Jehovah in all their dealings with a sinner, remembering Paul’s words: “God in his kindness is trying to lead you to repentance.” (Read Romans 2:4.) The elders must remember that they are primarily shepherds under the direction of Christ. (Isa. 11:3, 4; Matt. 18:18-20) Before meeting with the wrongdoer, the committee will prayerfully consider their goal: to lead the wrongdoer to repentance. They will do research in the Scriptures and in our publications and will pray for discernment. They will consider what they need to know about the individual’s background that may have contributed to his thinking, attitude, and conduct.—Prov. 20:5. Make a comment, very very short and understandable, use the JW bible to help !
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