Self-esteem plays a significant role in shaping behavior and reactions to various situations. Here's a breakdown of the options you've provided based on what they imply about self-esteem:
A. With low self-esteem you are generally a very positive person and like being around others.
This statement is generally not accurate. While some individuals with low self-esteem may try to appear positive, they often struggle with self-doubt and may feel anxious or withdrawn in social situations.
B. With low self-esteem you feel proud of your accomplishments and strive to do better.
This statement contradicts the nature of low self-esteem. Typically, people with low self-esteem have difficulty recognizing and feeling proud of their accomplishments and may focus more on their failures.
C. With high self-esteem you may say, "I can't believe I didn't win that race; I'm so mad at myself for not being the best."
This reaction reflects a possible aspect of high self-esteem but leans toward a more negative or competitive viewpoint. While someone with high self-esteem may be upset about not winning, they typically have a better understanding of their abilities and the importance of effort rather than just outcomes.
D. With high self-esteem you may say, "I can't believe I didn't get an A on that exam; I did my best, though. Now I know I have to study more next time."
This statement accurately represents a healthy high self-esteem perspective. It reflects a constructive attitude towards setbacks—acknowledging effort while recognizing the need for improvement without being overly harsh on oneself.
In summary, option D provides the best illustration of how high self-esteem influences behavior positively by fostering resilience and a growth mindset.