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Its 5:41 PM and there was a tprnado warning here so i panicked and i called 911 and my parents arent home omg and the nice lady said there was supposed to be an officer to come out here but idk when hes coming but either way its fine cuz i dont speak well with people
I'm really sorry to hear that you're feeling scared right now. It's completely normal to feel anxious during a tornado warning, especially when you're alone. Make sure you're in a safe place, like a basement or an interior room away from windows. If you feel comfortable, try to stay in touch with a friend or neighbor until your parents are home. It’s okay not to speak well with people; just remember that help is on the way. If you need any more advice or just want to talk, I'm here for you!
the winds picked up really high and my parents arent returning their calls i dont know if their okay or not
That sounds really frightening. It’s understandable to be worried when you can’t reach your parents, especially during severe weather. Please try to stay calm and focus on your safety. If you’re in a safe place and the winds are strong, it’s important to stay where you are until the storm passes.
If the winds get very severe, make sure you're in a secure room away from windows. If you’re still unable to reach your parents and the situation feels unsafe, consider calling 911 again to update them.
Keep monitoring local weather updates if you can, and stay safe. Your parents are likely doing their best to get home safely, too.
That was the first time i spoke to someone in years and im 15 omg im really worried..
I completely understand why you feel overwhelmed, especially if it was your first time talking to someone after a long time. It’s okay to feel worried, especially in a stressful situation like this. Just know that reaching out for help is really brave.
While you wait, try to find something to distract yourself, like listening to music, reading, or watching something you enjoy. If you feel comfortable, you might also try sending a text to a friend or family member you trust who might be able to help or just chat with you to keep your mind off things.
You're doing your best, and it's important to prioritize your safety right now. Take some deep breaths, and I'm here if you need to talk more.
what did it mean if it said "the person your calling isnt avalable" ?? i tried calling my mom she didnt pick up
When you hear "the person you're calling isn't available," it usually means that your mom's phone is either turned off, out of service, or she’s unable to answer the call for some reason, such as being in a place where there’s no signal. It doesn’t necessarily mean that something is wrong; sometimes people are just busy or in an area without reception.
It’s understandable to feel anxious when you can’t reach someone, especially in a situation like this. Try to stay calm and keep trying to reach her if you feel comfortable doing so. If possible, you could also send a text message. Sometimes texts can go through even when calls can’t.
In the meantime, focus on staying safe and keeping yourself calm. If you have any other questions or just want to talk, I'm here for you!
my dad got mad at me for calling 911☹️ i was worried!!
It’s completely understandable that you felt worried and called 911 during a tornado warning, especially if you were alone. When people feel scared, they sometimes make decisions that might seem excessive to others later on. Your safety is the most important thing, and you took a responsible action by trying to get help.
Your dad might have been stressed, too, and that can sometimes lead to frustration. It doesn't mean you're in trouble for being worried. When you get the chance, you could try explaining to him why you felt the need to call. It can help to share how scared you were. Communication is key, and it’s okay to express your feelings.
For now, try to focus on staying safe and calm. You did the right thing by looking out for yourself. If you want to talk more or if there's anything else on your mind, I’m here for you.
yeah and i was alone and it was dark outside and the sirens were blaring and stuff
That sounds really terrifying. Being alone in the dark with sirens going off can definitely make anyone feel scared and anxious. You were just trying to keep yourself safe, and it’s completely normal to react strongly in such a stressful situation.
It’s important to remember that you did the right thing by calling for help because your safety matters most. In situations like this, it’s natural to feel overwhelmed. When you’re feeling anxious, try to find a safe space to sit and breathe deeply if you can.
Just remember, you’re not alone now. You can talk to me if you need some support or if there’s anything specific you want to discuss. I’m here for you!
yeah i probablyy shouldnt had called lol
It’s okay to feel that way, but please don’t be too hard on yourself. In an emergency, it's really hard to think clearly. You were trying to take care of yourself, and that’s important. It’s a natural reaction to seek help when you feel scared, especially in a situation like that.
Next time, if you’re in a similar situation and feeling worried, you might want to try contacting a friend or a family member first. But what's most important is that you're safe right now. If you want to talk more about it or if there’s anything else on your mind, feel free to share!
yeah but my mom just called me like a few minutes ago and i told her and my dad was like "WHAT??" i heard him in the background. I was just worried. Im pretty sure my brother would had done the same thing if he were here instead of me. I told him sorry and stuff but he still sounded mad. im just gonna leave him alone for the rest of the day. And I believe in prayer and power but I was just making sure and stuff
It’s great that you took the time to explain the situation to your mom and that she was able to check in with you. It sounds like everyone is just feeling a bit on edge, which is really common in stressful situations. You were looking out for yourself—there's nothing wrong with that.
It’s understandable that your dad might have reacted strongly out of concern or because he was also worried. Sometimes, during tense moments, emotions can run high, and people might not respond the way they normally would. It’s thoughtful of you to give him some space.
Believing in prayer and the power of support is important, and it’s good that you’re holding onto that. When things calm down a bit, you might find a moment to talk with your dad and let him know how worried you were.
In the meantime, take care of yourself. If you need to talk or if there’s anything specific you want to share or ask, I’m here for you!
ughh he always get mad at everythong and stuff i was just making sure. I repented and prayed to God then I called the 911. Then he gets mad. they said they were stuck with all the trees and stuff but i was just worried like dont get mad at me
It's completely understandable that you were worried and took action to keep yourself safe. When you're feeling anxious and there's a lot going on—like bad weather and being home alone—reaching out for help is a natural response. It sounds like you're being really thoughtful about the situation and trying to do the right thing.
It can be tough when your parents react in ways you don’t expect, especially when you just wanted to make sure you were safe. Remember that their reactions may also come from stress or worry for you and themselves, especially if they felt that help was not needed, or if they were trying to get home safely.
It’s good that you repented and prayed; that shows you’re reflecting on the situation and trying to handle it in a positive way. When things settle down, it might help to have a calm chat with your dad to express how you felt.
For now, just focus on staying safe and finding a way to relax. If you want to talk more or share your thoughts, I’m here to listen!
the police officer came already he was nice as well
I'm glad to hear that the police officer came and that he was nice! It’s reassuring to have someone there to check on you, especially when you’re feeling anxious. It sounds like you handled a really tough situation well, and reaching out for help was the right thing to do.
If you’re feeling a bit more settled now, that’s great! If you want to talk more about what happened or anything else on your mind, I’m here for you. Just remember to take deep breaths and give yourself some time to relax. You did a good job!
okay thanks :)
You're welcome! If you need anything else or just want to chat, feel free to reach out anytime. Take care of yourself, and I hope the rest of your evening goes smoothly! 😊
my dad still was angry like it was dark and stuff and i didnt know what to do but pray but he was out and stuff and he had a car to drive away. he said "so what you saying?" like he always does this!!
It sounds really frustrating to feel like your dad doesn’t understand where you’re coming from, especially after such a scary experience. You were in a tough situation, and it’s completely normal to feel anxious and seek help when you’re scared and alone.
When people are stressed or upset, they can sometimes respond in ways that might feel dismissive or harsh. It’s possible that your dad was worried, too, and didn’t know how to express it. If he often reacts this way, it could be a pattern he’s in, and it might help to talk to him about how you feel when he responds that way.
When things calm down, consider explaining to him that you just wanted to ensure your safety and that you were worried because it was dark and the storm was happening. Maybe finding a time to sit down and have a calm conversation would help, but it might not be the best time right now if he’s still feeling angry.
Remember, you’re not alone in this, and you did the right thing by trying to keep yourself safe. If you want to talk more about it or need any support, I’m here for you!
pfft yeah right. dont get mad at me, i was just calling
I’m not mad at all! I understand that this situation is frustrating and can feel overwhelming. You were just trying to communicate how you felt, and that’s completely okay. It’s normal to want to express your thoughts and feelings, especially when you’re dealing with something tough.
I’m here to listen and support you, so feel free to share whatever’s on your mind. You did what you thought was best in a scary moment, and it’s important to give yourself credit for that. Just know that it’s okay to express your feelings, and whatever you’re going through is valid.
no i was talking about my dad, he got mad.
I understand now—sorry for the confusion! It must be really frustrating that your dad got mad at you for trying to keep yourself safe during a scary situation. It sounds like you were just doing your best to handle a tough moment, and his reaction is understandably upsetting.
Sometimes, when people are stressed or worried, they react in ways that can be hurtful or make us feel misunderstood, even if that’s not their intention. It’s tough when parents don’t see things from our perspective, especially when you’re worried about safety.
If talking to him feels too difficult right now, giving him some space might be a good idea until things cool down. Later on, when both of you have had a chance to settle, it might be helpful to talk to him about how you felt during the storm and why you called for help.
You did the right thing by reaching out in a moment of fear. If there’s anything else you want to share, or if you want to talk about how you’re feeling, I’m here for you!
now i regret calling 911.
It’s completely natural to feel regret after a stressful situation, especially when there’s conflict afterward. Please remember that you acted out of concern for your safety, which is the most important thing in that moment.
Feeling regret can be difficult, but reflect on the fact that you were worried and tried to ensure your safety. It’s easier to look back and second-guess decisions, but in a moment of fear, it's hard to know what the right thing is.
You did what you thought was best at the time, and that shows you cared about your well-being. If you ever find yourself in a similar situation again, you might approach it differently, but that’s part of learning and growing.
If you want to talk more about how you're feeling or anything else on your mind, I’m here to listen and support you!
no my dad made me regret i had no problem with it.
I'm really sorry to hear that your dad's reaction made you feel regret about calling 911. It sounds like you were just trying to keep yourself safe, and it’s disheartening when someone we care about doesn’t understand our concerns.
It's normal to feel hurt or frustrated, especially when you're already feeling scared and alone. Just remember that your feelings are valid, and it's okay to feel upset about how he reacted. Everyone deals with stress differently, and sometimes it leads to misunderstandings.
In the future, if you feel comfortable, you might let him know how his reaction affected you. Sharing your feelings can sometimes help others understand your perspective.
For now, try to focus on what you can do to feel better. If you want to talk about anything else or how to move forward, I'm here for you. You did the right thing by reaching out for help when you felt unsafe.
im not gonna speak to him for the rest of the day he really made me feel bad
That sounds like a good idea if you feel that space will help you calm down and process your feelings. It's understandable to want to step back from a situation that made you feel bad, especially when emotions are running high.
Taking time for yourself can be really helpful. Focus on doing something that makes you feel better, whether it’s watching a show, listening to music, or engaging in a hobby you enjoy.
Remember, your feelings matter, and it’s okay to give yourself the time and space to work through them. If you want to talk about anything else or just share how you're feeling, I'm here for you!
thanks also sometimes i dont feel like im real when i was talking to him it felt weird, the police not my dad
It sounds like what you experienced could be a feeling of dissociation, where it feels like you’re not fully present or connected to reality. It can happen during stressful situations or moments of anxiety, and it’s not uncommon, especially during overwhelming experiences.
Feeling detached or like things aren’t real can be unsettling, but it’s a way your mind copes with stress. It might be helpful to ground yourself by focusing on your surroundings, feeling your body, or even engaging in a simple activity that helps bring you back to the present moment, like deep breathing or focusing on an object in the room.
If these feelings continue or feel intense, it's important to talk to someone you trust about it, like a family member, a counselor, or a friend. Remember, it’s completely valid to feel this way after going through a stressful experience.
If you want to explore this more or talk about anything else, I’m here to help!
also i was stuttering a lot.
It’s completely understandable to stutter or have difficulty speaking during a stressful situation. When you're feeling anxious or scared, your body can react in ways that make it hard to express yourself clearly. This can happen to anyone, especially in moments of high tension, and it doesn’t mean anything negative about you.
If you find yourself in a similar situation again, remember that it's okay to take a moment to collect your thoughts before speaking. Deep breathing can also help calm your nerves and make it easier to communicate.
It might also help to practice speaking in low-pressure situations, which can build your confidence. But it’s important to be gentle with yourself; we all have moments when we don’t communicate as smoothly as we’d like.
If you’d like to talk more about this or anything else, I’m here for you!
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