In Chapter 1 of "The Life of Frederick Douglass," Douglass recounts his early life and the circumstances of his birth as an enslaved person in Tuckahoe, Maryland. He starts by expressing his ignorance of his own age, a common situation among slaves, as many were not allowed to know or inquire about such personal information. He notes that most slaves could only approximate their ages by agricultural seasons rather than actual dates.
Douglass reveals that his mother was named Harriet Bailey and that she was of darker complexion, while his father was a white man, likely his master. He highlights the cruel practice of separating enslaved children from their mothers at a young age, often before the child could bond with her. Douglass only saw his mother a few times throughout his childhood, as she was forced to work and lived far away. Their reunions were brief, occurring at night, when she would come to see him after her long day of labor. Eventually, when Douglass was around seven years old, his mother passed away, and he was tragically not permitted to be with her during her illness or burial. Douglass reflects on the lack of an emotional connection he had with his mother, feeling her death similar to that of a stranger, illustrating the deep emotional toll of slavery on family and relationships.