Help me write this to my ex friend with a better English “ it broke me Ntando you just distanced yourself from me. to show that you and sihle are telling yourselves nothing if you guys were really my friend you were not gonna to whatever you’re doing now I just don’t understand your friends so I just don’t think this will work I don’t wanna be a control freak in fact you’re happy with them

Answer 1

Here’s a revised version of your message:

"Ntando, it really hurt me when you distanced yourself. Your actions suggest that you and Sihle are convincing yourselves of something that isn't true. If you were truly my friends, I believe you wouldn't treat me this way. I’m struggling to understand your choices, and I don’t think this situation is sustainable. I don’t want to come off as controlling, but I can see that you’re happy with them. I just don’t know how to move forward from here."