help me write this in a proper english “ i don’t know how you’ll take this but i think it is time to talk about it and please hear me out i’m not fighting and i expect you not to fight me. you know about how i feel about my family members, i don’t really understand khutso and i don’t want you to have her number as much as i want to start a proper family and restart my relationship with you, do you know that last time when you were here i was told that i don’t really know how to maintain a relationship? you're fine when you’re having mpho’s numbers not khutso please.”

Answer 1

Here’s a refined version of your message:

"I want to talk about something important, and I hope you can hear me out without taking offense. I’m not looking for a confrontation, and I would appreciate it if we could keep this conversation calm. As you know, I have strong feelings about my family members, and I struggle to understand Khutso. While I genuinely want to build a proper family and repair our relationship, I feel uncomfortable with you having Khutso’s number. Last time you were here, I was told that I don't really know how to maintain a relationship. I believe it's fine for you to have Mpho's number, but not Khutso's. Thank you for considering my perspective."