Can some one please tell me if these are assertive,non-assertive,or aggressive. and give me an example how i would write each sentence with the ones that its not.

1. You never return my phone calls.
2. I am not sure when I can meet. I'm pretty busy.
3. If we take the two o'clock train, we can get to the theater in time to have dinner before the show.
4. The last designer I worked with got everything wrong, so I hope that you are better.
5. I don't really have a favorite color, so whatever you want is fine.

1 answer

1. is aggressive. You might say, "Please return my next phone call to you."

Study this site and then try to decide on the other sentences.

http://counseling.studentlife.uiowa.edu/self-help/a-comparison-of-non-assertive-assertive-and-aggressive-communication/