Can constant belittlement and hen-pecking be considered aspects of one's personality?
2 answers
Yes.
It is a learned method of relating to others. If it inconsistent over situations and persons, it can be considered an aspect of one's personality.
However, whatever is learned can be unlearned… assuming that the person wants to unlearn it.
However, whatever is learned can be unlearned… assuming that the person wants to unlearn it.