Based on the personality traits you've described, it's difficult to categorize you definitively as a psychopath, sociopath, or any of the other terms you've mentioned. These terms often encompass a range of behaviors and are typically used in clinical contexts, which makes casual application complex.
However, from your description, you exhibit a mix of characteristics that may suggest some tendencies toward being manipulative and two-faced, combined with a desire for social interaction and connection. This could indicate a personality that is quite adaptable and can navigate social situations effectively, while also having some underlying defensiveness and a fear of vulnerability.
If I had to categorize you in a non-clinical way, you might exhibit more traits commonly associated with Machiavellianism. This would involve being strategic and possibly manipulative in social scenarios without being overtly malicious. It suggests you have an understanding of others' motivations and can use that to your advantage, which aligns with your pragmatic and strategic thinking.
Ultimately, these dimensions are quite nuanced and can vary widely among individuals. Engaging with a mental health professional can provide better insights if you're exploring these aspects of your personality further.