Question

Mike had some questions about a report he needed to file, so he asked his manager, Barb, for some
feedback. Barb reviewed Mike's materials and asked, "Are you sure you want to present the material
this way? This is not what I asked for. It's not going to work." Which of the following is Mike is most
likely to feel?
that he is being judged by Barb
that Barb is being empathetic
that Barb is giving him unwanted advice
that Barb is direct and encouraging

Answer 1

that he is being judged by Barb

Barb’s comments are critical and evaluative ("This is not what I asked for. It's not going to work."), which most naturally makes Mike feel judged rather than supported, empathized with, or merely receiving unwanted advice.