You successfully learned how to use reasoned judgments to navigate ethical dilemmas. Now, you must make a difficult decision. After volunteering together for a while, you and Gabriel have become good friends. Lately, Gabriel has been hanging out with friends you don’t know well. Gabriel recently mentioned that they’ve been involved in activities that go against your values.

Your friend Gabriel enthusiastically invites you to a party on Saturday night, playing up how fun it would be. You remember your parents' rule about asking for their permission before going to parties, but you feel hesitant to bring it up with Gabriel.

What should you do first to handle this situation responsibly?
Question 7 options:

Ask Gabriel if your parents need to know about the party.

Find out how your parents feel about the party.

Decide to skip the party without discussing it with anyone, fearing what others might say.

Tell Gabriel you can attend without thinking further about it.

1 answer

The most responsible first step to handle this situation is to find out how your parents feel about the party. This approach respects your parents' rules and allows you to gather the necessary information to make a well-informed decision. It also gives you the opportunity to discuss your concerns about Gabriel's new friends and their activities, which could influence your choice about attending the party. After you have clarity on your parents' perspective, you can have a more informed conversation with Gabriel.