Mu mico myinshi, abantu barateretana mu myaka itandukanye. Ariko, mu myaka makumyabiri bafite, ibyo biterwa n'uko umuntu abona ubuzima, amahame y'umuco, ndetse n'ubushobozi bafite mu by'ubukungu n'uburezi.
Muri rusange, abantu benshi bahitamo gutekereza ku masomo, kuzamura imishinga yabo, cyangwa se gutegura ahazaza habo mbere yo kwinjira mu mubano w'abakundana n'ubusanzwe. Nubwo hari abashobora kuba bameze neza mu mibanire yabo, ni ngombwa ko abantu bumva ko igihe cyose ari cyo cyiza cyo kwiga no gukura.
Ni byiza ko abakundana bagerageza kwiga ku mibanire yabo, bagahana ibitekerezo, kandi bakiyubaka mu buryo bwose bishoboka bagamije gukura no kugira ejo hazaza hiryoshye. Уbu, umubano w'ukuri usaba ukwizerana, kumvikana, n'ubushake bwo gukorera hamwe.