Niba umukobwa afite imyaka 21 akakugunda, byaba byiza kwibanda ku kumva no gusobanukirwa neza ibimureba, kandi ukazirikanira uburyo mwagiranye imibanire. Dore bimwe mu bitekerezo byagufasha kumva no kuganira nawe:
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Kuganira ku bimenyetso: Gerageza kumenya ibimenyetso by'uko akukunda. Ashobora kubigaragaza mu buryo bwo kuganira, kwita ku byo uvuga, cyangwa se mu buryo bwo kugenda akwereka amarangamutima ye.
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Gukora ibishoboka byose byatuma mwishimana: Shyiraho uburyo bwiza bwo guhurira hamwe, nk'ibikorwa by'imikino, kujya ahantu hamwe, cyangwa se kugaragarirana amarangamutima binyuze mu biganiro byiza.
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Kumva ibyo akeneye: Mujye mwisanzura mu gusangira ibitekerezo no kumva ibyo akeneye mu mibanire yanyu. Ibi bizamufasha kumva ko umwitayeho kandi umushimye.
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Kugira icyizere: Icyizere ni ingenzi mu mibanire. Shyiramo imbaraga mu kuyubaka, mu kumwereka ko umufitiye icyizere kandi ko ushaka ko muba mu bihe byiza hamwe.
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Kuba hafi: Gerageza kumuba hafi, kumva ibibazo bye no kugerageza kumufasha mu gihe cyose ubonye ko akeneye inkunga.
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Kwiyitaho: Ntabwo ari wowe gusa ugomba kwita ku mukobwa, ahubwo na we agomba kugutega amatwi no kukwitaho. Mureke mwitange ku mibanire yanyu.
Ibi byafasha mu kubaka urukundo rwiza kandi rwiza hagati yanyu. Niba akukunda, azakubwira mu buryo butandukanye, kandi ukaba wowe uba wumva umeze neza mu mubano wanyu.