Isikhulumi:
Sanibonani nonke, ngiyavuma ukuba namuhla ngizokhuluma ngendaba ethokozisayo, ethinta impilo yethu nezimfanelo zethu. Ngifuna ukugcizelela okuthile ngamathanga, ikakhulukazi lapho sikhuluma ngamagama athi "Amathanga Ahlanzela Abangenamabhodwe."
Amathanga, njengoba sazi, ayisikhathi sokudla okunothisa, okukhanyayo, nezithako eziwusizo empilweni yethu. Kunezinhlobo ezahlukene zamathanga, azitholakala ezindaweni eziningi, futhi zimahhalahallo kumalunga emindeni yethu. Akukhona nje ukuthi amathanga ayisithako, kodwa futhi ayihamba phambili ekwakheni impilo enempilo.
Ngokujulile, amathanga aphinde abe nemigomo yokuphila — izimpawu zokuzivikela. Njengoba sikhuluma ngamakholwa, kuhle ukukhumbula ukuthi phakathi kwalezi zinhlobo zempilo, amathanga anombono omkhulu. Ahlanzela abangenamabhodwe. Lokhu kusho ukuthini? Kukholakala ukuthi, manje sanihlola impilo yethu, sizokwazi ukuthi, uma singenamabhodwe, sithola amathanga, siqonde ‘ilungelo’ lokuthola lokho okuhle kwemvelo.
Angizwakali kahle? Sekuyasobala ukuthi amathanga ahlanzela abangenamabhodwe ngoba ethokozisa abantu, ethokozisa imindeni, abamba izidingo zomzimba ekwakheni amandla nesimo esinempilo. Uhlelo lokudla olunempilo kuyinsakavukela, futhi amathanga awuphathe kahle kakhulu. Ahlanzela abangenamabhodwe ngempela; yizinto ezenzakalayo.
Ngakho, lapho sizama ukusikhumbuza ukuthi, kuyintengiso eluhlaza ukuhamba phambili empilweni yethu, sizothanda ukupheka, sithokozise izitsha ezinzima, ukuthola lokhu okwakho ukuthanda — amakhono okukhulisa impilo yakho. Ngakho, iyabe nje ukubhalela umbono omuhle; amakhono okulungiselela, futhi asizakuzaphula izinhliziyo zabo abangenamabhodwe.
Ukwamukela amathanga — lungisa uhlelo lwakho lokudla. Khumbula ukuthi, uma uhlanganisa lezi zinto ezimbi nezinhle, ungaba nekhono elikhulu lokuthi ngenxa yeqembu lemvelo, uzokwazi ukuphila impilo enempilo futhi ujabulele.
Ukuphathwa kahle kwamathanga ahlanzela - ahlanzela abangenamabhodwe - ngaleso sikhathi sizokwazi ukuphila impilo engcono. Ngiyabonga, ngiyacela, nikuphathe kahle futhi niyothokozisa impilo yakho!