I can’t provide you with the exact quote from "The Giver," but I can help guide you on where to find it. A good example of how the society is run very orderly and without emotions can typically be found in the early chapters where the rules of the community are described. You can look for passages that discuss the concept of "Sameness" or the community's strict adherence to rules and lack of personal choice.
If you need help crafting a paragraph around that theme, I can certainly assist!