Question
Walk into any McDonald’s in the morning and you will find a group of mostly retired people clustering in a corner, drinking coffee, eating and talking. They are drawn to the McDonald’s because it has inexpensive good coffee, clean bathrooms, space to sprawl. Unlike community centers, it is also free of bureaucracy.
Almost all of them name their group with variations of a self-deprecating theme: in suburban El Paso it is the Old Folks’ Home, and in rural New Mexico it is the Morning Brigade. In the small rural town of Natchitoches, Louisiana, it is the Romeo club, an acronym for Retired Old Men Eating Out.
The Natchitoches group, like many of them, sprawls across a corner of the McDonald’s, taking over more and more tables as people join, and emptying them as they leave. Everyone who comes knows each other; have for many years, some since childhood.
Willard Jones, 93, tries to make it a few days a week. “I love McDonald’s. People are so nice. My friends come here. I see everybody. Coffee is good, and cheap.” He was born and raised here. “I had it real rough growing up, because times were real rough. Lived on a plantation, modern day slavery. When I was a kid, we used to get a special treat a few times a year, and go eat in town. That place was dirty and cost us a lot. Not like McDonald’s. It is clean here.”
These morning groups reflect America in another way: they are almost all segregated. There are all black groups, all white groups, and all Hispanic groups. Rarely are any mixed. The Natchitoches group is the exception. Mostly African Americans, there are a few white men who come and go.
In Natchitoches, the Romeo group isn’t the only social event at the McDonald’s. On Tuesdays, there is a bingo game. On weekends, a Bible group sets up in the opposite corner, and offers prayers and Bibles to whoever wants to come. It is run by Stephen Elliott, 63. “We come here every Saturday, and set up in this corner. The McDonald’s offers us room for whoever shows up. We have the space to gather and pray.”
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Almost all of them name their group with variations of a self-deprecating theme: in suburban El Paso it is the Old Folks’ Home, and in rural New Mexico it is the Morning Brigade. In the small rural town of Natchitoches, Louisiana, it is the Romeo club, an acronym for Retired Old Men Eating Out.
The Natchitoches group, like many of them, sprawls across a corner of the McDonald’s, taking over more and more tables as people join, and emptying them as they leave. Everyone who comes knows each other; have for many years, some since childhood.
Willard Jones, 93, tries to make it a few days a week. “I love McDonald’s. People are so nice. My friends come here. I see everybody. Coffee is good, and cheap.” He was born and raised here. “I had it real rough growing up, because times were real rough. Lived on a plantation, modern day slavery. When I was a kid, we used to get a special treat a few times a year, and go eat in town. That place was dirty and cost us a lot. Not like McDonald’s. It is clean here.”
These morning groups reflect America in another way: they are almost all segregated. There are all black groups, all white groups, and all Hispanic groups. Rarely are any mixed. The Natchitoches group is the exception. Mostly African Americans, there are a few white men who come and go.
In Natchitoches, the Romeo group isn’t the only social event at the McDonald’s. On Tuesdays, there is a bingo game. On weekends, a Bible group sets up in the opposite corner, and offers prayers and Bibles to whoever wants to come. It is run by Stephen Elliott, 63. “We come here every Saturday, and set up in this corner. The McDonald’s offers us room for whoever shows up. We have the space to gather and pray.”
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love how these gatherings illustrate a sense of community and connection, especially for retirees who may otherwise feel isolated. The McDonald's serves as a central hub where friendships are nourished over cheap coffee and shared stories. This informal setting allows for genuine interaction without the constraints of formal structures found in traditional community centers.
The diverse naming conventions, like the Old Folks’ Home and the Romeo Club, reflect a humorous acceptance of aging while also fostering a sense of belonging. These groups are more than just social; they are a refuge where lifelong friendships are sustained and new stories are created.
Willard Jones’s recollections provide a poignant backdrop to this environment, highlighting the journey many have traveled. His words remind us that simple pleasures, like a clean space and good coffee, can carry significant weight, especially when contrasted with tougher times.
While the segregation of these groups shows a divide that still exists within society, the mixed attendance at the Natchitoches group illustrates the potential for connection across differences. This blend of backgrounds enriches the experience for everyone involved, fostering understanding among the participants.
Additionally, the presence of activity, like bingo games and prayer groups, underscores the multi-faceted role that McDonald's plays in the community. It’s not merely a fast-food restaurant; it’s an active participant in the lives of these individuals, providing a safe and welcoming space for social, spiritual, and recreational activities.
In this way, the stories of these morning gatherings create a richer narrative about the significance of place in fostering community and connection, reminding us of the importance of companionship, shared experiences, and the simple joy found in everyday life.
The diverse naming conventions, like the Old Folks’ Home and the Romeo Club, reflect a humorous acceptance of aging while also fostering a sense of belonging. These groups are more than just social; they are a refuge where lifelong friendships are sustained and new stories are created.
Willard Jones’s recollections provide a poignant backdrop to this environment, highlighting the journey many have traveled. His words remind us that simple pleasures, like a clean space and good coffee, can carry significant weight, especially when contrasted with tougher times.
While the segregation of these groups shows a divide that still exists within society, the mixed attendance at the Natchitoches group illustrates the potential for connection across differences. This blend of backgrounds enriches the experience for everyone involved, fostering understanding among the participants.
Additionally, the presence of activity, like bingo games and prayer groups, underscores the multi-faceted role that McDonald's plays in the community. It’s not merely a fast-food restaurant; it’s an active participant in the lives of these individuals, providing a safe and welcoming space for social, spiritual, and recreational activities.
In this way, the stories of these morning gatherings create a richer narrative about the significance of place in fostering community and connection, reminding us of the importance of companionship, shared experiences, and the simple joy found in everyday life.