Question
Stopping by the Nursing Home on a Sunny Morning
She was my shelter from a storm
A home away from home
My blanket I would never outgrow
Just one embrace and I would know
That this too shall pass, and I could face
My toughest enemy in every race
But now she is a shadow of her younger self
a withering flower in a forgotten glass vase
I tell myself that this too shall pass but I
don’t know what lies on the other side of the glass
door when I am in the nursing home Alzheimer’s ward
She won’t see me nor remember the lives we had
Once a beauty queen, she lent me pearls and scarves
I see her pale blue gown, spotted skin and IV scars
She used to bake pecan pies and macaroons
When she walked by the room would smell of jasmine
The unspooled yarn in a basket under the bed
is another sweater that will never be made
“It’s Ally,” I whisper to the one who named me
The youngest in our clan, once her favorite grandbaby
Her eyes are fixed on a picture frame of us and an old Great Dane
His mind was gone before his body left
He has the same droopy eyes as her and a dejected look
The last photograph in our home my daddy took
I hold Grandmother’s hands that tremble like a leaf about to fall
She hasn’t shut me out, not yet, not completely, not at all
But I see the hollowness in her eyes, the windows about to close
Does her mind not know the love that her heart, I hope, knows?
If love is lost with memory, who is she to me
If only my love and memory stay, for now, will it be
Question
Read the line from the poem.
A withering flower in a forgotten glass vase
How do the words “withering” and “forgotten” impact the meaning of the poem?
Responses
A They influence the reader’s perception by depicting the grandmother’s lack of hygiene.They influence the reader’s perception by depicting the grandmother’s lack of hygiene.
B They stress upon the low quality of maintenance at the nursing home and reveal a lack of finances.They stress upon the low quality of maintenance at the nursing home and reveal a lack of finances.
C They describe the appearance of neglect and emphasize the grandmother’s condition.They describe the appearance of neglect and emphasize the grandmother’s condition.
D They reveal the state of fragility the speaker experiences thinking about her own future.They reveal the state of fragility the speaker experiences thinking about her own future.
She was my shelter from a storm
A home away from home
My blanket I would never outgrow
Just one embrace and I would know
That this too shall pass, and I could face
My toughest enemy in every race
But now she is a shadow of her younger self
a withering flower in a forgotten glass vase
I tell myself that this too shall pass but I
don’t know what lies on the other side of the glass
door when I am in the nursing home Alzheimer’s ward
She won’t see me nor remember the lives we had
Once a beauty queen, she lent me pearls and scarves
I see her pale blue gown, spotted skin and IV scars
She used to bake pecan pies and macaroons
When she walked by the room would smell of jasmine
The unspooled yarn in a basket under the bed
is another sweater that will never be made
“It’s Ally,” I whisper to the one who named me
The youngest in our clan, once her favorite grandbaby
Her eyes are fixed on a picture frame of us and an old Great Dane
His mind was gone before his body left
He has the same droopy eyes as her and a dejected look
The last photograph in our home my daddy took
I hold Grandmother’s hands that tremble like a leaf about to fall
She hasn’t shut me out, not yet, not completely, not at all
But I see the hollowness in her eyes, the windows about to close
Does her mind not know the love that her heart, I hope, knows?
If love is lost with memory, who is she to me
If only my love and memory stay, for now, will it be
Question
Read the line from the poem.
A withering flower in a forgotten glass vase
How do the words “withering” and “forgotten” impact the meaning of the poem?
Responses
A They influence the reader’s perception by depicting the grandmother’s lack of hygiene.They influence the reader’s perception by depicting the grandmother’s lack of hygiene.
B They stress upon the low quality of maintenance at the nursing home and reveal a lack of finances.They stress upon the low quality of maintenance at the nursing home and reveal a lack of finances.
C They describe the appearance of neglect and emphasize the grandmother’s condition.They describe the appearance of neglect and emphasize the grandmother’s condition.
D They reveal the state of fragility the speaker experiences thinking about her own future.They reveal the state of fragility the speaker experiences thinking about her own future.
Answers
GPT-4o mini
The correct answer is:
C They describe the appearance of neglect and emphasize the grandmother’s condition.
The words "withering" and "forgotten" highlight the frailty and decline of the grandmother, as well as the sense of loss and neglect associated with her situation in the nursing home. This imagery effectively underscores the emotional weight of the speaker's experience as she grapples with her grandmother's Alzheimer's and the impact on their relationship.
C They describe the appearance of neglect and emphasize the grandmother’s condition.
The words "withering" and "forgotten" highlight the frailty and decline of the grandmother, as well as the sense of loss and neglect associated with her situation in the nursing home. This imagery effectively underscores the emotional weight of the speaker's experience as she grapples with her grandmother's Alzheimer's and the impact on their relationship.